Now I see two options how I can deal with this problem:
1. Stop buying stuff. I could of course settle to accept that I have enough stuff and stop buying. But I know for a fact that I can't for the simple reason that I am young, I work hard and spend carefully so I find it rewarding when I buy stuff I like.
2. Start throwing stuff out. The second option is probably the option that is more likely to happen though I'm going to have to work very hard. I hate throwing stuff out so much that I usually keep things that I can no longer wear outside...and sleep in them! You see the problem? I should of course, give stuff away to charity and it's not that I don't like being charitable or helping others, it's just that I can't bring myself to get my stuff, throw them in a garbage bag, and never see them again. I get this from my grandma, who's just like me and she often brings stuff over which she used to wear or she kept which are often amazing vintage pieces and I just drool over them and appreciate the fact that I am like her...you see a pattern here?
One of the pieces my Nanna kept. Also, my favourite ring. |
So that's my problem. Any suggestions from people who suffer from this sort of anxiety will be appreciated.
Claire